John Rambo Who?

Its not John Rambo…Its Gavin Rambo!!!

You don’t want to break into my house 🙂

**Disclaimer: To ease anyone’s concerns and to prevent child services from being called…Gavin did not want to hold a real knife, therefore he is holding a large icing thingy!**

Making Room For Hailey – Update!

This is my daughter Hailey.

She is already the second most beautiful girl in the world (slightly trailing Nicki) and she is already making my opinion that girls cost more money true. Fortunately she is responsible for helping me see that we have not been as responsible financially in our first 7 years of marriage that we could have been (all my fault), so we are now making adjustments to overcome those areas and pay off some non-essential debts.

Nick Mart Item #2 The Sunvision Tanning Bed has been sold!

This is a huge blessing because it not only makes room for Hailey’s nursery but it allows us to pay that much debt off.

Nick Mart Item #1 The Nissan X-Terra is still for sale. $15,500
See Details and Photos HERE.
This is another huge deal for us because we cannot all safely fit in one vehicle right now, so this is not a “want” to sell but a “have” to sell. Want to buy? Know of someone who does? Email me: info@nickcarnes.com

God is Awesome!

Old Shoes

I bought a pair of New Balance running shoes several months ago. The shoes are extremely comfortable and perfect for running. They met my needs until I started playing basketball. My New Balances are still comfortable, but they do not give me much ankle support. I’ve played basketball for a long time and I know that you need ankle support or you can seriously injure your ankle.

A couple of weekends ago, Nicki and I went to a departments store that had a big sale going on and on top of it we had received a coupon for an additional 15% off anything in the store. I decided it was the best time to get a pair of basketball shoes.

I’ve tried to wear these shoes twice. On both occasions they tore my feet up. I tried the shoes on and they fit perfectly, but that was until I tried to use them in play. My poor little toe is ripped to shreds from the friction of the shoes. I am going to try and exchange them for a wider shoe to see if that helps.

This experience has made me think about life and ministry… Continue reading “Old Shoes”

Making Room For Hailey (Updated!)

Hailey will be here at the end of July and we’ve got to make room for her and prepare financially, so we are parting ways with some things and upgrading with others. A few months back, I got convicted about some of the credit card debt that we had, so I started parting ways with non-necessities to pay off debt. I told Nicki we would replace some things as we could do it with cash. Therefore I sold my X-Box 360, my guitar, one of my computers, and now we are parting ways with some other things. Maybe you have a need for it or you know of someone else who may, please let us know if you do info@nickcarnes.com or call 706.955.2341.

All Picture are located at the bottom of the page. Please click on the Thumbnail to see a larger photo:

  • Nick Mart Item #1 2005 Nissan X-Terra Off-Road Edition

We are selling our Nissan X-Terra because we can no longer fit in it safely with 3 kids.

Selling for $15,500

Great Condition, Under 38 K miles, A/C, V-6 245 H.P. Engine,5 speed Automatic Transmission, 2-WD, Roof Rack, Running Boards, Privacy Glass, AM/FM Radio w/ Single CD, 1 Owner, Great SUV.

  • Nick Mart Item #2 2006 ETS Wolff Systems Sunvision Pro 28LE Tanning Bed SOLD!

This Bed Is In “LIKE NEW” Condition, We bought it brand new almost 2 years ago with our tax return and have barely been able to use it.

It has VERY low bulb hours on original bulbs! It has 28 Wolff Velocity Body Bulbs that will last a minimum of 1000 Hours of use. (only 80 hours on them now)
It uses a 20 Amp 220 Volt Outlet.

Sunvision series 7ft 28 lamp commercial bed.

NEW MSRP: Price: $4,699

This is what Sunvision has to say about this model:

The Sunvision 28LE tanning bed provides unmatched tanning versatility. The Sunvision 28LE is one of our most versatile tanning beds. The Sunvision 28LE tanning bed would make a great revenue addition to your hair or nail salon.

Selling for $1900
Best for Local Pick-up but will be willing to deliver within specific locations for an additional charge. Buyer is free to arrange their own personal pick up and delivery as well.

Chasing Daylight Chapter 4 Thoughts (Part 1)

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Here are the first quotes that have stood out to me so far from Chapter 4 of Chasing Daylight from Erwin McManus. The chapter is titles “Influence.”

  • Manipulation is the use of influence to control others for personal gain. It is the dark side of influence. Manipulation could be described as a relational lie. It is not merely deception in language, but the corruption of trust.
  • While manipulation is inherently evil, influence is the best way to lead and move others toward what is good.
  • A life touched by God always ends in touching others.
  • We have lost confidence in the power of influence, and because of that, we have lost the beauty of its art. The problem with potential power is that while it may control the actions of another human being, it does not capture the heart.

Just being straight up…this chapter has stood out to me so far because I have been in a church environment where the pastor was a master manipulator. I have seen where his manipulation has severely wounded and damaged people, some to the point of no return. I see a pattern in scripture where God was disgusted and angered by the priest in the Old Testament and the Pharisees and Sadducees in the New Testament because they led people away from the love of God versus towards it. Jesus said in Matthew 23 that the Pharisees would travel land and sea to make one convert, only to turn them into twice the sons of hell as they were.

I saw this pastor use his influence to manipulate the sale of a church and its property that people invested years of their life and in some cases “hundreds” of thousands of dollars to see a deceptive vision come to pass. All for nothing, there was no reason for anything that took place. I’ve forgiven this man, but it does not diminish the damage and the hurt caused by the power of manipulation. Erwin is correct…it is the “Dark Side” of influence. My only prayer is that God extends the same amount of mercy and grace in my life as I need it as he has this man. My true prayer is that I live for God in such a way that I never need that much.

Nicki and I were talking the other day about men who have used their influence in the same manner. I told Nicki that if I had as much influence as these people had, I would truly use it to change the world, not to meet a personal agenda. That is my honest desire. I believe the key is when Erwin said, “A life touched by God always ends in touching others!What do you want to use your influence to do?