The Competitive Church

I made a decision a while back to make my blog about Jesus and not as a rant machine, however there are times we must compromise to say what needs to be said…

Jude 1:3-4 (NLT)
“Dear friends, I had been eagerly planning to write to you about the salvation we all share. But now I find that I must write about something else, urging you to defend the faith that God has entrusted once for all time to his holy people. I say this because some ungodly people have wormed their way into your churches…”

Jude was writing a letter to the churches dealing with false teachers. I am writing my letter to the false Christ-followers…for many of them have ‘wormed’ their way into our churches (and our blogs) as well.

Dear “Christian,”
We are called to ‘Go’ into all the world to make disciples, to baptize, and to teach the things that God has commanded of us. We were commanded by God to love the Lord with all of our heart, soul, and mind and equally to love your neighbor as yourself. Now it is evident that many of you definitely love yourself because you do no wrong, but in the apparent perfection that God has granted you, it seems that you have the special ability to point out your opinion of everyone else’s wrongs. But, I have to stop and ask, how is this loving your neighbor as yourself? Or in your perfection, was this not written to you? You can treat everyone else as you wish, as long as your neighbor loves you, right?

Here’s the way I see it…when you come to people’s blogs and leave divisive comments or send hateful emails, you have too much time on your hands. Without being judgmental, I would say the perception is, you are not fulfilling the great commission or the great commandment. In no way are you making disciples (for Jesus), you may be trying to make disciples for yourself, as you spew your venomous wisdom; you are not baptizing and you definately are not teaching or illustrating what God has commanded of us…to Love Him and to Love our Neighbor.

Recently a man decided to have a ‘willing suspension of the truth’ concerning a blog post from a friend of mine. It was talking about a new church that is starting in the area where he once served. An area that he prayed for, cried for, and sacrificed for. An area where all the churches in the county combined could not house the residence if they decided to come to church on the same Sunday. This is not the first attempt from this man to bring my friend down or to cause problems with others, but this time he is going a little too far by sending letters to the neighboring churches trying to stir discord amongst them and the pastor who is starting the church as well as my friend. I ask, are you familiar with Diotrephes? Please read what the Bible had to say about him…

3 John 9-11(NLT)
I wrote to the church about this, but Diotrephes, who loves to be the leader, refuses to have anything to do with us. When I come, I will report some of the things he is doing and the evil accusations he is making against us. Not only does he refuse to welcome the traveling teachers, he also tells others not to help them. And when they do help, he puts them out of the church.

Dear friend, don’t let this bad example influence you. Follow only what is good. Remember that those who do good prove that they are God’s children, and those who do evil prove that they do not know God.

I will let scripture speak for itself. It says that those who are God’s children will prove that through doing good. This man is not the only one that has done things like this. There are hundreds who infiltrate blogs everyday! I cannot judge any man’s salvation, but the Bible says you will know them by their fruits. I don’t see any of the fruits of the spirit in these type of actions, do you? I do not see any good in these actions do you? How can someone who truly know the love of God, spread such venom? In the Bible, we called these people Pharisees and Sadducees. Jesus told that group in Matthew 23, that ‘they traveled land and sea to make one convert and when they did they made them twice the sons of hell as they were.’ he said ‘they were like tombstones, pretty on the outside but dead on the inside.’ He said ‘they treated people like a dirty glass, they clean the outside, but leave the inside dirty.’ People like this would rather others look like they want them to, sound like they want them to, rather than to have them live like Jesus would have them to, why? Because they are not living like Jesus would have them to live! Continue reading “The Competitive Church”

What Will You Do With The Power?

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The first time I heard Francis Chan was at the Thirsty Conference in 2006. He did a talk out of Haggai that blew me away. I have to admit, I stole it, changed it up slightly to make it my own, but I gave him credit for the influence. 🙂

Today in my daily devotional read of My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers, I was reminded of the message, and wanted to share a few thoughts (I suggest taking the time to read through the 2 short chapters of Haggai HERE after reading this post to get the full idea of what is taking place.)…

(1:12) Then Zerubbabel son of Shealtiel, and Jeshua son of Jehozadak, the high priest, and the whole remnant of God’s people began to obey the message from the Lord their God. When they heard the words of the prophet Haggai, whom the Lord their God had sent, the people feared the Lord. Then Haggai, the Lord’s messenger, gave the people this message from the Lord: “I am with you, says the Lord!”

The basic idea from Chapter 1 of Haggai is that God is not pleased with the people because they have put themselves, their desires and ambitions, before pleasing the Lord and doing the things that He desired. Zerubbabel led the people to obey the Lord and its at that point that the Lord tells them, “I am with you.”

Kind of sounds like the promise in Matthew 28:19-20 when we are commissioned to go into all the world to make disciples, to baptize, and to teach others all that Christ has taught us, basically the things He desires. He ends by saying in the NLT, “And be sure of this: I am with you always…”

Now back to Haggai…
(2:23)”…I will honor you, Zerubbabel son of Shealtiel, my servant. I will make you like a signet ring on my finger, says the Lord, for I have chosen you.

Zerubbabel obeyed the Lord and did what He desired, so the Lord finishes the chapter out telling Zerubbabel that He is chosen by God and that He has made him like His signet ring. That right there is awesome! Pause and think about it…A signet ring is the King’s Seal, it is used to attest the authority of its bearer, the ring has also been seen as a symbol of his power. So that means, Zerubbabel has been given God’s authority, His power, His advanced say-so to do what needs to be done, He had God’s approval.

Oswald Chambers wrote today about “The Never-Failing God” – and his focus is on His promises to never fail us and to never forsake us. “…I will never fail you. I will never abandon you.” (Hebrew 13:5) – “Neither will I in any way forsake you” – That means that no matter what we do, how bad we mess up, how sinful we are or how selfish we get, the Lord is still there. He has chosen us, He has given us power, He lives with in us, and promises to give us abundant life. Here’s how Chambers closes the devotional:

“We have the idea that God is going to do some exceptional thing, that He is preparing and fitting us for some extraordinary thing by and bye, but as we go on in grace we find that God is glorifying Himself here and now, in the present minute. If we have God’s say-so behind us, the most amazing strength comes, and we learn to sing in the ordinary days and ways.”

So…What have you been waiting for God’s say-so on? Or – What is something in the past that you were holding back on because you were waiting on God’s approval? What will you do with the power God has given you?

Georgia PDYM Network Lunch – You Could Win!

The Georgia Purpose Driven Youth Ministry Network Lunch is being held THIS Thursday, May 29, at Destiny Metropolitan Worship Church in Atlanta Georgia. If you are a part of the PDYM Network or if you are interested in being a part of it, please make plans to attend.

Time: 11:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m.
Cost: $5 to help cover lunch

For Directions visit: www.destinymetro.org or Map Quest: 1775 Water Place SE – Atlanta, GA 30339 – Phone # 770-509-9010 (Latasha Morrison)

This is a great opportunity to connect with other like minded youth workers who are facing some of the same issues and struggles that you do in the trenches of student ministry. Doug Fields sent us a special training video (Exclusive Only for the PDYM Network), free resources for all who attend, and other tools and resources for door prizes.

**I am doing a special drawing for everyone who RSVPs in advance, so if you are planning on attending, let us know!**

For more information on the lunch or to find out more about the PDYM Network and how to balance your student ministry based on the 5 Biblical purposes, contact one of these Georgia PDYM Mentors:
Nick Carnes (Me) – Email
Jeffery Wallace – Email
Latasha Morrison – Email

Hope to see you there!

The Payback

For approximately 7 years I served both as a volunteer lead youth worker and as a full time youth pastor at a former church in our local area. I’ve seen hundreds of students come through the doors of our student ministry, some stuck with us, while others moved on. Many received Christ and others chose their own paths. I’ve sat and listened and shared with those who were broken and in need, while others felt they had their life in the palm of their hand with no worries in the world. I prayed and cried and sacrificed for student after student.

There were many days (usually Mondays and Thursdays) that I questioned whether it was all worth it. There were many days I wanted to throw in the towel and give up. There were many occasions where my heart was ripped in two because of the lack of vision for students by people who just didn’t get it, but then there was today…

The Payback. It was a long day and a very sobering one at that. Nicki and I attended two graduations that contained many students who I had the privilege of loving and investing my life in from our former church and in the community, but there were two who held special places in Nicki’s and my heart, because of their investment into our lives and into our family. We consider both Diana and Sequoia a part of our family; our adopted children. As I sat in my chair at each graduation, I could not help but to ask myself the question, “Did I do all that I could to help prepare these students for what’s going to hit them next?” “Did I help strengthen their faith to help them stand strong and hold to their beliefs?” – I guess over time I will receive my answer, but I believe because of the foundation the parents of these students helped lay for them, these students will continue to shine for Jesus throughout their life. My job was always to come along side the parents and support them and reinforce them in the life of their children as I pointed them to Jesus. These students made it. They have made me proud. And now as I look back, every Sunday was worth it, every mid-week student service was worth it, every small group lesson was worth it, every prayer…every tear…every frustration, because these students have the potential to change the world!

Who are you investing in?

Old Shoes

I bought a pair of New Balance running shoes several months ago. The shoes are extremely comfortable and perfect for running. They met my needs until I started playing basketball. My New Balances are still comfortable, but they do not give me much ankle support. I’ve played basketball for a long time and I know that you need ankle support or you can seriously injure your ankle.

A couple of weekends ago, Nicki and I went to a departments store that had a big sale going on and on top of it we had received a coupon for an additional 15% off anything in the store. I decided it was the best time to get a pair of basketball shoes.

I’ve tried to wear these shoes twice. On both occasions they tore my feet up. I tried the shoes on and they fit perfectly, but that was until I tried to use them in play. My poor little toe is ripped to shreds from the friction of the shoes. I am going to try and exchange them for a wider shoe to see if that helps.

This experience has made me think about life and ministry… Continue reading “Old Shoes”