Reagan Theodore Benson Carnes Arrived!

Sunday afternoon, my brother Ben and his wife Ashley, had their first baby (brace yourself for the name) Reagan Theodore Benson Carnes, he is going to have a tough time spelling all of that when he gets older, but I am sure he will manage! Ben is huge into politics, and thus he chose republican names for the little rug rat, however I have chosen my own nickname for the little one, Clinton Obama Edwards Carnes, not because I Support them, but because I have to be the pesky older brother!

Anyway, this was an awesome outfit to take the new one home in! Congrats Ben and Ashley!!! And welcome Reagan!

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Craving Chinese

Grrr!!!! I am craving Chinese food!!! Yet, I look in the mirror and like the fact that I can see results and have lost weight, I fit in pants 1 size smaller than a month ago, and I can wear smaller shirts, so I just say No! I don’t know how much longer
I Can hold out…

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What Are You Looking At?

I was reading through Jeremiah again today, as I am studying that book right now. The entire first section of the book is dealing with Israel and Judah’s turning away from God towards false gods, stone and wood…they choose to worship the created over the creator. To put it lightly, God is furious with them, and He uses all kinds of analogies to describe Israel and Judah in their sin.

This verse stood out to me today: Jeremiah 5:21-23

Listen, you foolish and senseless people, with eyes that do not see and ears that do not hear. Have you no respect for me? Why don’t you tremble in my presence? I, the Lord, define the ocean’s sandy shoreline as an everlasting boundary that the waters cannot cross. The waves may toss and roar, but they can never pass the boundaries I set. But my people have stubborn and rebellious hearts. They have turned away and abandoned me.

If I look at my own life I have to wonder how many times I take my eyes off of God and put them on something else? God tells me I am foolish for doing so! He declares how Big and Powerful He is in this verse, “…I, the Lord, define the ocean’s sandy shoreline as an everlasting boundary that the waters cannot cross. The waves may toss and roar, but they can never pass the boundaries that I set.” God is saying, “look I control the oceans!” Maybe Christians should go take a field trip to the beach and see who can stop the waves and who can control how far they come ashore. We cannot do it, yet everyday Christians and the church take our eyes off of God and we put them on things that God created versus on Him, the One that created all things, or we put them on ourselves as if we can control our life and what takes place around us.

I wonder how many of us are like Israel and Judah? Does God look at us and say, “Oh people with eyes who cannot see and ears that cannot hear?” Maybe today you should take a minute to examine what you are looking at…is it everything except God? Or is your focus on the one that controls the oceans?

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A Merciful God

I was reading through Jeremiah 3 today and came across verse 12…this verse stuck out to me because it shows just how merciful the God that we serve is. Once again Israel has given itself over to the worship of other gods, the true and living God compares Israel to an adultress wife (or a camel in heat in chapter 2), but God calls out to Israel with open arms…

“…O Israel, my faithless people,
come home to me again,
for I am merciful.
I will not be angry with you forever.”

The cool thing is, no matter how much we mess up, God is willing to take us back with open arms as well. He forgave us at His death, knowing that we would still screw up…a lot! Yet he still gave us the opportunity to be a part of his family and he still gives us mercy when we need it.

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Exclusive Interview: Sylvester Stallone Rambo 4

A great view into why the movie is so bloody!

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John Rambo: The Last Blood

I just saw John Rambo, the last of the Rambo films. This was the best action movie I have ever seen! I won’t give everything away, but the last main battle scene is so sweet…to quote a movie critic, “Jesus will weep – and you will cheer!” Overall, great movie, but I would say the movie is about 15 minutes too short, coming in at 1 hour and 45 minutes, but I can say that Sylvester Stallone ended the series of John Rambo right.

I am a Rambo fan and always will be. If you are not, you may not like this movie, yet it does have a good story, it shows a perfect picture of the sufferings of the Burmese people on an everyday basis…Nicki even said it was good! Go See it and if you need someone to go with you, call me!

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Life: Message Series

I came up with a 3 session/week series for the winter retreat that I just spoke for, here are the main points or thoughts for each of the sessions. I may put everything up on the resource sharing site for PDYM, but I am not good at providing outlines for other speakers…I have my own note style, but here is the main thoughts:Session/Week 1 - Life: Stories (** This was created around a situation where the students from this group live in a small community and just faced the murder of one of their school mates **)

I. Life Stories are not Perfect:
* Main thought focuses on life’s struggles…pain…hurt…wounds, etc.
(Psalm 31:9, 10, 12) David lays out his true feelings to God…he feels shattered, forgotten, left for dead, etc. (1 Corinthians 11:23-27) Paul points out his struggles in his life and ministry)

I created this picture as a Power Point Slide as I pointed out how the game of LIFE tries to simulate the real thing on a board and that it is the “perfect world” we all make plans in our lives,
a lot of times it looks like the picture: graduate, make a lot of money, become famous, find that hot babe or gorgeous dude, buy a hue fancy house, a sports car, and live happily ever after…but since Life is not perfect its not like the game.

II. Life Stories are not Predictable:
* Main Thought: We get caught off guard with Life’s struggles. At times we do not see them coming and they have an effect on our lives. (I.E. Death)

III. Life Stories Can Have Alternate Endings:
* Main Thought – We can allow the issues of life to control us or we can do like David did and put our full trust in God (Psalm 31:14)

Session/Week 2 – Life: Connections *Main Thought: We were created to Connect- Its a natural desire and instinct.

Connection Point 1: Connection to Christ
(James 1:18; Ephesians 1:5; Galatians 4:7)
* Main Thought: We are connected by love – Its what holds us.

Connection Point 2: Connection to Community
(Romans 12:5; 1 John 1:3; 1 John 3:18-19; Acts 2:44)
* Main Thought: We are connected to love – Its what reveals us.

** Video Suggestion: Together Team Hoyt or Other

Session/Week 3 – Life: Passions
I. Exchange Passions
*Main Thought: Christ exchanges our old passions for new passions
Psalm 37:4, Galatians 2:19-20, Ezekiel 36:26

II. Clarity in Passions
* Main Thought: God created us to be passionate, and he desires that we live a life of passion after him…this can be done in various different ways. Buddhism teaches to live a life absent of all passion, but Christ came to make us passionate.

I did a run through of Jeremiah and showed how God prepared Jeremiah for a mission, something he could be passionate about (Jeremiah 1:4-5), how Jeremiah doubted the gifts and talents God gave him (vs 6) and how God clarified to Jeremiah what he had prepared him for and that he was with him…and then he equipped him (vs. 7-9) I then showed how despite oppression and opposition (Jeremiah 20:1-2) Jeremiah had become so passionate and so on fire for the mission God had prepared him for, he could not help but to live out that passion (Jeremiah 20:8-9); (Hebrew 12:29 – God consumes our lives with his passion). The final thought was that it took Jeremiah obeying and trusting for him to fully live out his life of passion, once he did that God consumed him with the new passion he gave him.

** Video Suggestion: He Is – used this to set up the thought that we cannot be passionate for a God that we do not understand who he is in our lives.

**Note: Like I said I am not great at sharing my personal notes and thought on messages, I have no problem communicating them, but providing them for others is tough, I hope you are not confused! :)

My email is on the side bar if you would like any further information on the series or if you want the graphics, etc.

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Is Your Worship Like Camel Sex?

I just started studying Jeremiah…here is section of scripture that stood out to me this morning:

Jeremiah 2:23-25
You say, ‘That’not true!
I haven’t worshiped the images of Baal!’
But how can you say that?
Go and look in any valley in the land!
Face the awful sins you have done.
You are like a restless female camel
desperately searching for a mate.
You are like a wild donkey,
sniffing the wind at mating time.
Who can restrain her lust?
Those who desire her don’t need to search,
for she goes running to them!
When will you stop running?
When will you stop panting after other gods?
But you say, ‘Save your breath.
I’m in love with these foreign gods,
and I can’t stop loving them now!’

Most of us would strongly deny that we worship anything but God, yet if we take an inventory of our life and we take a serious look at where we spend our time and what we spend it doing we would see that we allow other ‘idols’ to get the attention that our God should be receiving. Maybe that idol is money…not necessarily that you have a lot of it, but the opposite, you feel like you don’t have enough, so you spend your time worrying about how the bills are going to get paid, how you are going to get out of the deep debt you are in, or you spend all of your free time working extra jobs to make up that which you lack, all the while the very one who provides everything to us, goes without notice, He gets ignored, and we wonder why our lives are a total wreck. It could be loneliness; we seek out anything that will give us a temporary fix, something that will make us feel accepted and valued just for a little while…yet the God of all creation…the one who created us to love us and to care for us, and to make us a part of His family gets put to the side, yet we never fill that void because we ignore the only one that has the power to fill it.

I love how the verse describes Israel’s desire to seek after and worship other gods as an animal seeks to mate when it is in heat. Are we not the same way? Do we not seek after pleasures in our own lives, anything to fill the void of loneliness, anything to fill the time? The fact is we are just like Israel was in the time that Jeremiah went to send them God’s message…we love our pleasures, we love our stuff, we love and we worship everything besides our glorious God, we exchange it for worthless idols! We are nothing more than animals in heat seeking our next partner. What would happen if those who call themselves Christians would love God first? What would happen if we decided to love God with all of our hearts, our souls, and our minds?

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Demon Possessed Students: Sequoia DeQueen Frazier


Yes! I helped Exercise the Demons in this poor teenager.
She is now living a normal life in Evans, Georgia.

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Dentist


I went to the dentist yesterday. My last visit was back in November which was the first visit for me in a looooong time. Literally like 15 years! I hate the dentist, I think I get that from my dad, and of course some horrific experiences growing up. Novacane only half way works on me, and so my top teeth suffer. I only had 2 cavities over 15 years, that in my mind is awesome (I can probably thank my lack of interest in sweets), and after yesterday, I hope its another 15+ years before they find another. My new dentist finally found a way to numb the top tooth he was filling, but it took like 9 shots of Novacane! My mouth is still sore today.

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